Does your Venus join together with Uranus, Neptune, or Pluto? population whose birth charts are strong in the outer planets tend to have fantastic lives. When Venus is part of the picture and makes strong connections called aspects with the outer planets, they're also likely to have a love life that is anything but ordinary. It could be in any place from star-struck to star-crossed! Let's have a look at some of the patterns you're likely to see with these folks and see which celebrities share them.

Venus and Uranus: (Similar to Venus in Aquarius) population with this aspect have to learn to "hang loose" in relationships or suffer many setbacks. Plain old laundry-folding, rent-paying love doesn't interest them-they want excitement, glitter, and variety. Furthermore, there's often an attraction to slightly dangerous, potentially vaporing types, just for the sheer adrenaline rush. They ordinarily spin to population vastly distinct from themselves-sometimes population from vastly distinct backgrounds, and sometimes the funky, rebellious, nonconformist who'll jump on a bike and roar off into the sunset.

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This can be piquant as long as you don't get possessive and don't want roots and commitment-but insist on them with these Uranian types, and you'll suddenly find them gone. Sudden changes and disruptions in the love life mark this aspect-no Golden Anniversary celebrations likely. And don't expect the person to be there for you consistently...your Uranian partner is likely to be too detached to spin to your feelings. So what's in it for you? You're the one doing the choosing, and you chose this paragon, following the itch of that Venus-Uranus aspect. For more security, you may have to learn to care for population who aren't quite as stimulating, but who are more likely to be there when you need them.

What positives are there in this aspect? It results in a cosmopolitan feel and the ability to get along with many distinct kinds of people. Often you come in feel with piquant and stimulating population from a collection of cultures and backgrounds who broaden your mind-I call this the Universal Brotherhood aspect. You may also be able to spin to young population and help them straight through the turmoil of growing up. Furthermore, you may be open and receptive to new acquaintances who are forever drawn into your orbit, so you are all the time studying from them.

Venus-Uranus People: Those with the conjunction-the strongest of the aspects in that the two planets stand together-include Tom Cruise, Michael Jackson, fitness advocate Richard Simmons, Elizabeth Taylor, and Candice Bergen.

Venus and Neptune: (Similar to Venus in Pisces.) often a savior/martyr complex exists in the love relationships of population born under this aspect. You may very well choose population you think you can reform-Neptune/twelfth house types of population such as ex-cons, alcoholics, invalids, or severely wounded people. A pattern of choices like these can leave you hurt when your goals of reform or cure are unrealistic. After you're hurt a few times by alcoholics, you may avoid them, but saunter to some other Neptunian type. Oddly enough, the more distinct your possible partners appear on the outside, the more they are alike in their crucial innermost qualities.

With this aspect your psychic sensitivity is very keen, even if you're using it for self-destructive choices. Before you can stop "magically" picking out partner after partner that fits such a pattern, you must become aware of your part in the situation and of why you may unconsciously pick population who hurt you. You are not a victim, although with this aspect you might confidentially enjoy believing you are-if so, you're one of those population who enjoy the role of martyr. Despite blatant clues that are red flags to those nearby you, neurotic need blinds you to the true nature of these people. It might be that dysfunctional partners unconsciously make you feel superior while at the same time like a very special, terribly compassionate super-being who will work the miracle of cure.

Often, too, the qoute is connected to the model of codependent relationships you saw at home. As a collective worker, I found that almost every woman whose husband was an alcoholic had a father or other requisite person in her childhood who drank heavily. The masochistic satisfaction her mother derived from being the rescuer and Rock of Gibraltar for the house transmitted itself to the daughter and shaped her vision of what marriage was like. She wound up choosing whether a man who drank too much but "gave it up for me"- gave it up, that is, until the first bloom of love wore off. Or else she chose a man of whom she says, "I didn't know he drank," even though she should have been extremely well-known with the signs and symptoms because of her own father. Wives of drug addicts show similar dynamics.

The "way out" for a Venus-Neptune person is to spin compassionately to such troubled population without feeling the necessity to recovery them and play the martyr. A great option of mate might be person who personifies the distinct traits of Neptune-spirituality, creativity, and dedication to service.

Venus-Neptune People: Those with the conjunction comprise Bill Clinton, Richard Gere, Meg Ryan, Jodi Foster, Christopher Reeve, and Matt Damon.

Venus and Pluto: (Similar to Venus in Scorpio) With this combination, you may alternate between extremes-being a loner or getting into symbiotic (joined at the hip) relationships so smothering and possessive that it's hard to remain an individual. Jealousy, suspicion, and lack of trust are regularly present, along with brooding and bitterness over previous lovers you drove away with the smothering routine. "Til death do us part" is your motto in any relationship, so you find it hard to forget-or forgive-the ones that got away. Yet, your intensity and neediness can overwhelm population and make them feel so smothered that they leave.

Control may also be an foremost issue in your relationships-if it is and if you don't have it, you may manipulate and maneuver until you get it. If the other person is in control, you may practice the final word in operate by leaving. Obviously, this manner of relating to other population leaves them (and you) without much freedom or individuality, and isn't likely to make whether of you happy. Letting up on your operate and possessiveness is hard work, but chronic in these patterns warps your relationships.

Venus-Pluto People: Those with the conjunction comprise Antonio Banderas, Duchess Sarah Ferguson, Beyonce Knowles, Dr. Phil McGraw, Simon Cowell, and Raquel Welch.

We've only been able to skim the covering of outer planet aspects to Venus here. How the relationship patterns connected with them arise and how to use them in more constructive ways are very complex questions. To understand where a definite relationship fits into your life, you'd do well to consult a pro astrologer.

Venus at the Outer Edges of the Solar principles